The Pursuit That Changed Everything
Hey Girl Gang!
When I started The GIRL Pursuit, it was because I was tired of the highlight reel.
Tired of pretending motherhood was all magic and no mess. Tired of smiling through the postpartum black hole that nearly swallowed me whole. Tired of acting like healing from childhood wounds was a weekend project. Tired of performing a version of womanhood that left no room for the truth.
So, I started talking about it.
The fire that was always there! The needs no one discusses. The empowerment that cuts both ways. The friendships that shift when you become a mom. The career pauses that break you. The ways your body builds your fire—and how making peace with it changes everything.
And now? The Newest Episode on The GIRL Pursuit Podcast
And we’re going deep into the topic I’ve been dancing around for a while:
Marriage. Not the fairy tale version. The real one. The one with stonewalling partners, unspoken resentment, and weekends that feel like war zones. The one where you’re healing before you have kids—or desperately trying to heal WHILE raising them. The one where you’re reading the room, setting boundaries, and wondering if you’re the double-edged sword: empowered or just exhausted?
In the Season 3 premiere, I’m pulling back the curtain on something I’ve never shared publicly: The wedding ring I demanded my husband wear. The compliance I expected. The conversion I got instead.
This episode is about:
∙ Why I thought marriage was about my partner doing it MY way
∙ The daily struggle of stonewalling, silence, and anger I couldn’t articulate
∙ What happens when the part of you that “wants something so badly” just… dissipates
∙ Whether that’s growth or giving up (spoiler: it’s conversion)
But here’s the thing—this isn’t just about marriage.
This is about EVERY pursuit:
∙ The pursuit of healing while holding your kids
∙ The pursuit of being a “good friend” when your life no longer has room for it
∙ The pursuit of your career while wondering if the pause was a mistake
∙ The pursuit of empowerment that sometimes feels like you’re just performing strength
∙ The pursuit of your body’s acceptance when society says you should look different
∙ The pursuit of speaking your truth when your triggers are screaming louder
This new season, we’re talking about:
Intimacy that has nothing to do with sex
Fighting fair vs. fighting to win
When your partner isn’t growing with you
The invisible labor that breeds resentment
Whether you can come back from betrayal
How motherhood changes your marriage
Money, power, and control
Choosing each other again (and again)
But really? We’re talking about YOU.
The woman who’s doing the work. The woman who’s showing up even when it’s hard. The woman who refuses to stay silent about the things that matter.
You’re not alone in this pursuit.
And I’m so glad you’re here.
Let’s do this together.
P.S. What’s YOUR conversion moment? The thing you’re navigating right now that’s asking you to become someone new?